Children and Chores
Your Home is an Opportunity.
From Mary Spitsnogle LMFT,RPT (913) 827-6399
Red Tent Counseling LLC www.theredtent.org
Working together helps children to gain an understanding of ‘belonging’.
All members must work together to make the household run.
Chores teach skills of cooperation and responsibility.
Chores teach values of fairness and commitment.
Challenge your children.
Show them how to do the chore.
Teach one chore at a time
Break down the chore into small parts.
Explain.
Change the nature of your chores as the child grows.
Monitor at first.
Set up a reward system or chart system.
Provide logical consequences.
Do not repeatedly remind or nag.
Do not do the chore if your child refuses or forgets.
Provide lots of praise.
Age Appropriate Chores
Helping is a way of life.
Some chores for 2-3 year olds can do:
Help make bed.
Pick up toys and books.
Help feed pets.
Help wipe up messes.
Dust with a socks on hands.
Ages 4 and 5
Clear and set the table.
Dust
Help out in cooking and preparing food.
Carry and put away groceries.
Ages 6-8
Take care of pets.
Vacuum and mop
Take out the trash.
Fold and put away laundry.
This month we have joined up with Happy Feet’s soccer program. Happy Feet, will be here weekly at our school to work with the children for their fitness program. This program is an exciting and fun experience for the children to participate in.
The program is designed to do the following and much more for children:
Captivate and entertain
Teach creative soccer techniques
Enhance gross motor skills
Develop social skills
Develop self-esteem
Give your child a great head start toward a healthy, happy, and successful lifestyle
Balance/Coordination
Please visit their site to see more on how they benefit your child here at Smithville Montessori Academy, II
According to MontessoriforEveryone.com there are 10 ways to promote peace in your classroom. Peace within the classroom is very important. We strive to provide the best environment for our students and make sure everyone is happy and is comfortable in the environment in which they are learning.
Here are a few tips on how to promote peace in the classroom
We wanted to re-design our infant room. I did a little searching on baby rooms on Google and I was able to find some amazing ideas. After seeing a Montessori room in California, we decided to paint a large tree, on the wall. I took a few pictures of the children working; found some great wall sayings, painted two trees and a few picture frames. I think the room looks great. Call to come by and see our re-designed room!
By: Noel Hundley
In today’s crowded world of power struggles and ego trips, the Montessori method serves as a guide to raising unselfish, self-regulated, caring human beings who are problem solvers and have the self confidence to lead successful lives by their own efforts, rather than at the expense of their fellow citizens. The world needs as many people with these qualities as possible to shift the balance away from the good-of-the-few mentality that plagues many cultures today. The world needs Montessori.
Why Would You Choose Montessori For Your Child?
Every parent has the duty and the choice of determining which qualities they wish to instill in their child. Our habits and our methods of meeting life’s daily challenges inform our children of the ‘correct’ way to live, and they carry these teachings with them into adulthood. Maria Montessori, founder of the Montessori school of thought, firmly believed that young children have incredibly absorbent minds, assimilating all that they see, hear and experience. The child self, and subsequently the adult self, is created from this absorption of total surroundings. By thoughtfully planning the environment in which children live and learn, the Montessori method provides the positive experiences most parents want their children to have in order to grow up with healthy minds, healthy attitudes and healthy life strategies.
If you think it’s important for a child to…
* be vibrantly inquisitive about new things
* enjoy the process of learning
* acquire fine motor skills
* develop an analytical mind
* work independently
* work without disrupting others
* work well with others
* be able to focus his/her mind on the task at hand
* respect others
* respect his/her own mind and abilities
* feel purposeful and valuable
* derive satisfaction from achievements
* become an independent, confident adult
…then you might wish to choose Montessori for your child.
How does the Montessori method work?
There are two main principles governing the Montessori method. The first is that teachers (be they parents or Montessori directors) must respect children. The second is that children are born with an inherent, natural love of learning. With these two beliefs setting the tone, the Montessori method can be applied both in the homeschool and classroom environment. Over the past century, Montessori educators have developed an excellent set of tools and learning materials that enable children first to develop the basic skills they need to learn effectively, and then to use those skills to acquire knowledge in the areas of language, science, history, mathematics and all of the subjects considered essential to a modern education.
Youngest children develop focus, motor skills, methodical habits and a sense of achievement by mastering physical tasks such as sweeping, scrubbing, polishing, and scooping. Sequencing, sorting, and problem solving are made enjoyable with blocks, models and puzzles of all kinds. Math basics begin with beads and cards and counters, and language skills improve with movable alphabets and language cards. Music and art play an important role in daily activities, and children investigate the habits of plants and animals. Older children then progress to more complex math, history, science and language arts with age-appropriate tools and materials. Throughout all levels, the child is guided to be orderly and tidy, and to help keep the classroom a good place for all of his/her classmates to work.
How is Montessori different than a typical public school program?
Unlike a typical public school program:
* The child is the focus of the Montessori classroom, not the teacher.
* The child sets his/her own learning pace. Progress is not dictated by the average progress of the class or by school board timelines.
* Montessori learning materials are built around controls that signal to the child when he/she has mastered a subject or when more work is needed. This self-governing learning process removes any sense of failure or public shame a child might feel in a classroom where the teacher judges and ranks students against one another. There is no need to compete, only to achieve skills for one’s own sense of accomplishment.
* Direction from the teacher is only provided as needed. Beyond this the child is guided to work independently, thus developing the ability to learn effectively on his/her own.
* Montessori classrooms are not laid out with desks for student and teacher. The learning environment is carefully constructed of shelves with beautiful materials that the children can choose from throughout the day.
* The end goal of a Montessori education is to develop a well-rounded, excellently socialized human being with a rational, inquisitive, well-organized mind.
It is this worthy end goal that truly sets the Montessori method apart. Unlike typical public education goals of having a child obtain proficiency in basic subjects considered to be essential by the public school system in order to receive a graduation certificate, the Montessori method focuses on the whole person and his or her need to develop habits and life skills that will serve them well as adults far beyond the classroom setting. If you attended a public school, chances are, you’ve forgotten the majority of the dates, facts and figures that you committed to memory in order to pass your finals. These particles of trivia are unlikely to be playing a major part in your present day life. But the attitudes you developed toward learning, the habits of organization you learned, the very way in which your mind was forming during your formative years is absolutely affecting the way you handle life’s challenges and opportunities today. The Montessori method strives to produce adults who adapt to new situations, learn new skills, and interact with others in a positive, productive way throughout life.
Is the Montessori method superior to the average public school method?
In 2006, Dr. Angeline Lillard (UVA) and her colleagues conducted a study of Montessori and non-Montessori students in two age groups: five-year-olds and twelve-year-olds. The results of this study indicated that the kindergarten-aged Montessori children tested higher in both math and reading than the public school children, using the Woodcock-Johnson Test Battery. The Montessori students also displayed more advanced social cognition and executive control, and demonstrated a greater concern over concepts of fairness and justice. The older group of Montessori children evinced a stronger feeling of community in their school than their public school counterparts and tested higher in math and writing skills.
An earlier study, conducted in 1991 by Alcillia Clifford and Carol Takacs, reached much the same conclusion. In general, Montessori students were more proficient at language arts, mathematics and expressed more positive attitudes towards their schools. This study concluded that Montessori students were more likely than public school students to complete their education rather than dropping out.
The success of a Montessori school is largely dependent upon the qualities and gifts of the director and teachers. Some schools will be superior to others. Parents should actively interview and investigate any Montessori classroom to which they might be considering sending their child. Statistics like the above indicate that Montessori-educated children test higher and have better social skills than their public school peers, but it remains vital that the parent choose wisely for the individual child.
Why does our world need Montessori?
To answer this question, let’s go back to the beginning. Maria Montessori first began developing her methods in the early 20th century while she was training to become Italy’s first female physician. She was assigned to observe a ward of children who had been classified as mentally retarded by the government. These children were being raised without the benefit of outside stimuli or toys of any kind. Montessori saw that the little children were so desperate for activity that they picked up crumbs from the ground and rolled them about in their fingers, just to have something to do. Montessori spent the next few months of her life providing these children with her basic educational materials and at the end of that time, the children were able to pass national tests, and even to test higher than so-called ‘normal’ peers.
Montessori learned that adults are prone to underestimate the intelligence of children in general. In today’s world, toys, games and educational materials are dumbed down for the child ‘consumer’ to a never-before-seen low level. We don’t simply give a child a set of wooden blocks or a book. We give him or her flashing cartoons and flickering video games with a deafening explosion per minute. As a result, we have youngsters who are unable to concentrate, focus, play on their own, understand the rights of peers, or pay attention to anything that isn’t being spoon-fed to them via the dubious medium of constant, unceasing entertainment.
Oftentimes, parents are shocked to discover that their children become ‘functional’ the moment they are given something interesting, useful and engrossing to do. Meaningless, adrenaline-filled boredom is replaced with purposeful activity and the child is suddenly focused and able to concentrate. Montessori materials provide that ’something-to-do’ that children so yearn for in their quest to become helpful, recognized, active members of the human family.
Concerned adults are shaking their heads over the disorganization, inequality, violence and general chaos of our modern civilization. Psychology has long recognized that our experiences in our formative years dictate a great deal of our adult behavior. The antidote to the rude, selfish adult is the loved, respected child. A system of education that devotes itself to creating a safe, positive atmosphere in which children can learn, grow, achieve, succeed, and come to respect themselves and others gets my vote.
The Montessori method is currently celebrating its centennial anniversary. Its contributions to the world – including many thoughtful, responsible, useful citizens – are ones which we can all appreciate. Congratulations, Montessori! May our world continue to benefit from your respectful philosophy for another hundred years.
By: Noel Hundley
A child’s mind, at a very young age is a very large sponge. Each child has the capability beyond what most normal adults believe they are capable of. Children for this reason need to be introduced to specific thoughts and circumstances as they grow, if they miss out on these opportunities they will be faced with a greater struggle, when they try to learn these things at an older age. When exposing children to Montessori, only benefits the child to be able to use his hands; children learn mostly by actions at this very young age. If you were to introduce the mammals of Africa in your classroom, traditionally you would print coloring pages; maybe have a stuffed animal or two and a few pictures of the mammals. In a Montessori environment you would bring in small replicas of these animals, find some animal skins of each one; so that the children may feel the different of the coats. The children would learn what the animals lived in by building the animal’s habitat. This enhances the children’s developing mind and allows the children to visualize an amazing picture of each animal.
The environment is a large factor for a child when he or she are in their sensitive periods. Children should find nothing hindering them in their development, leaving them free to choose different exercise/work, within limits. This is why having a prepared environment is key factor, a child cannot successfully learn when he walks into a classroom and immediately feels frustrated and/or over stimulated. A clean room is very important but also to have everything in order. If the child is not able to walk up and start working with the materials without the materials being missing or damaged, he will became dissatisfied and will not succeed at the task. The classroom is the child’s own personal space, this space is created by the atmosphere and the comfort level allowed to develop; the teacher is the important instrument in creating this environment.
Children when finding an intriguing piece of work will repeat this work many times throughout the day, some children will come back the next day to do it all over again. This is a very important step for the child’s sensitive period. Their minds needs to see the steps of the work over and over again, by doing this motion repeatedly is building up new movements in his muscles and meeting the desires of his unconscious need. Doing this also enhances their abilities to do more difficult pieces of work in the classroom. The Sensorial area helps children to gain the ability to notice significant details of the world around them. By introducing the children to classifications impressions that all five senses need to receive, olfactory(smell), visual, tactile(touch), auditory(sound), and gustatory(taste). Each of these areas allows the child to see the difference in colors, noises, shapes, sizes, etc. All of this material goes on to heighten the children ability to perceive their surroundings in a different and more complex manner. A child will go on to be greater in his imagination and showing his artistic qualities when he goes out into the world. The environment must support the development of the senses, concentration, discrimination, observation, appreciation, perceptive awareness, etc; to ensure the child to be engaged and develop to their full ability.
For more information about the Montessori Method, please visit the American Monessori Society webpage http://www.amshq.org
Posted By: Robin Hilmes and Noel Hundley
The holiday season is the perfect time for Montessori teachers to review integrating holiday activities, such as baking, into their curriculum. A recent blog post, from North American Montessori Center, reviews how holiday activities and curriculum go hand-in-hand.
Baking treats for the holidays in your Montessori classroom is a fun way to incorporate Cosmic Education, Cultural Geography, History, Math, Language, Science and Practical Life. Best of all, everyone gets to enjoy the treats they helped make. Here is a little history about cookies to share with your Montessori students:
The word “cookie” comes from the Dutch koeptje, which means small cake. The idea for cookies and crackers probably began with Neolithic farmers some 10,000 years ago, though I’ll be the first to admit their grain and water paste cooked on hot stones was a far cry from modern cookies. As time progressed, Middle Eastern cooks explored the possibilities of mixing butter, eggs, flour, and cream and sweetening them with honey or fruit. When the Moors invaded Spain during the Middle Ages, they brought with them exotic spices that became popular throughout Europe. When sugar became available in Medieval Europe, it was both rare and costly. Due to this and the expense of spices and nuts, cookies were baked for special treats. Many Medieval holiday treats contained such ingredients as cinnamon, ginger, black pepper, almonds, and dried fruits. By the 1500s, the idea of Christmas cookies had caught on all across Europe, with German gingerbread, lebkuchen, being one of the first cookies traditionally associated with Christmas.
You can also use the idea of holiday treats to encourage your students to share their diverse cultural traditions at this time of year, and to explore what kind of holiday treats they enjoy with their celebrations.
Posted By: Robin Hilmes and Noel Hundley
The Christmas season is a time of the year where the air is filled with surprise, happiness and Christmas activities. Young children especially are delighted when the holiday season comes around. For children it means making holiday crafts, Santa clause, presents and being with family.
Below are some Christmas craft ideas from www.NorthAmericanMontessoriCenter.com for the classroom or even as at home to share with your children.
Decorating Cookies
What child can resist spreading icing and liberally sprinkling cookies with cake sprinkles? And eating them is the best part!
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Reindeer Hand Puppet
Use these cute puppets when you sing Rudolph, the Red-Nosed Reindeer or Up on the Housetop.
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Posted By: Robin Hilmes and Noel Hundley
Christmas is such a fun time of year. Full of family, friends, happiness and holiday cheer. Getting your children involved in holiday activities can be a lot of fun. Below is a list from Thehometeacher.com with a few practical activities you can share with your kids this holiday season.
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Posted By: Robin Hilmes and Noel Hundley
This time of year is the perfect time to teach gratefulness. As parents model gratitude in their daily lives, children learn that an attitude of thankfulness is always appropriate. Jeffrey Froh, a Hofstra University psychology professor who has studied gratitude in children, notes the many benefits of raising thankful children. Children learn how to be generous and appreciate the sacrifices that others make. When you teach your children how to genuinely appreciate kind actions, they will be healthier and happier. This article from yourfamilytoday.com offers simple ways to raise thankful children.
How to Raise Thankful Kids
Going around the holiday table saying what you’re thankful for is a great tradition, but it doesn’t teach your child what it really means to give thanks. Teaching gratitude is an everyday job — and the benefits are huge.
“Kids who are more grateful tend to do better in school, report more satisfaction with their friendships and family relationships, have less depression and experience less envy,” says Jeffrey Froh, a Hofstra University psychology professor who has done numerous studies on gratitude in children. What’s more, kids who learn gratitude also learn generosity. When kids give of themselves and are appreciated in return, it reinforces the importance of giving and getting thanks.
Here’s how to make your child happier, healthier and more thankful: